Everyone I meet is some freaky vampire wannabe or a gothic "cookie cutter" dweeb and they only want to talk about sex or how they are so hot. (yes I used the word "dweeb" but it's okay because I am 30 years old and I am comfortable with being in my own skin)
I have been logging a few hours a week for 3 weeks now and I always feel like because I am new there, no one sees me. I have not been able to get anyone to help me or even talk to me. I could not figure anything out until just recently. I met a member who told me how to get new clothing, and how to customize my avatar. He even gave me 500 virtual dollars to get started. (no I did not have to do anything for it, this dude was actually pretty normal)
So finally second life is opening up to me. I still find it a little odd and boring, but connecting with just the one person has been enough to make me want to stick around a little longer and try to talk to more people.
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